New Thoughts, No Blame

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Good morning Brown Elite Loves. Been away for some time and it’s time for a refreshed approach in general areas of life. Since being away from social networking sites, I’ve faced revelations and uncertainties, ups, downs and favor. I find that development and maturity is a never-ending process. No matter how old or young, you will see life take unexpected courses; however God gives us the strength to move forward and face such things. I also learned that it is easy to play victim and blame others for things that don’t work out in your favor. But, is it worth the latter consequences you will inherit due to “blaming others?” I am firm believer in being very transparent with those I love and respect. From my Brown Elite Loves to new connections, I tell you, I’ve played that role many times in my life. I advise that we all repent, respect and move on. Blaming yourself for things is just as bad as blaming others. As I sit in a busy cafe this morning, I post an honest and wholehearted post to all! We may have heard these same words 100 times, but applying it to our personal hidden motives and “closets” ultimately reveals if we’ve embraced forgiveness of self, others and doing away with idle blame. Have an EXCELLENT day!

YOU

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 “My Brown Elite Loves, do your best in all that you do. Love with gentleness; encourage yourself and others. Embrace the beauty God bestowed upon you! There is no fingerprint like yours. Do you realize how special you are, dear Brown Elite Love? Be ready to give rather than expect.  Don’t EVER inflict self-hate nor racial hate– surely you will lose more than you dish out.  Your heart contains the wellspring of life, so guard and use wisely. The tongue contains life and death, speak wisely. Your decisions, choice of association often determines the majority of your journey, attach and socialize wisely. Wisdom doesn’t have an age, so be prepared to receive from unexpected wells. Your choice of association with people can be your elevation or your assassination. I choose to be a wise and keen, young woman. I choose to see the best in you. Peace.”

Love,

The Pretty Producer

PP

Voice Heard…

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chesz, Cheszerae, conversations, emotions, Good News, hope, human, love, networking sites, new technology, relationships, relationships with God, social development, spirit, truth, yolo

I still respect the old school way of life and I do NOT take several things at face value as everyone is pretty good at wearing a mask. Skip the small talk and have real heartfelt conversations face to face with others. Don’t be ashamed to be embraced or to be thought about. Not every person is here to harm you nor is every piece of technology good for social developing skills. Always ask how someone else is doing.Gently speak the Good News to unbelievers. It keeps us alive as we create human connections.  Learn how to listen to what people say and what they DON’T say as well. Many people are hurting behind their smiles, luxurious life styles, computers and phone screens. Give and you will given back to. Hebrews 3:13 But encourage one another day after day, as long as it is still called “Today,” lest any one of you be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin. From my  perspective, the only exception is: remain persistent only if you are assigned to the situation/persons. PS: Angels come in unexpected forms.

 

I’ve just been “Voice Heard”

 

Love,

 

The Pretty Producer

PP

 

One of those days

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You ever had a day where your experiences flash before your eyes? Then suddenly you recognize you’ve come from point A to B to C, etc.?  I’m feeling thankful for my experiences. I am thankful for my eyes to see,  mouth to sing and my ears to hear. When God gives you a cherished gift –gift of senses and gift of talent(s)– you are blessed, and you are special! What makes you smile? Will you reflect today? YOLO? You do NOT live only once. You can live as many times in one day as you wish!

If you’ve landed here on accident, CONGRATULATIONS!

 

Love,

The Pretty Producer

PP